Author Archives: Tijen Genco

Western value system honors the “new and shiny”, maintaining anything is not required. The whole economic structure built on that, and human minds are programmed for this quite well in this part of the world. Eastern cultures respected maintaining what was, and now they are changing as well because of the Western marketing hypnosis impact,Continue reading “Separation and Releasing”

Upcoming Events Weekly Mentor Coaching Sessions Open for Registration Thursdays, January 9 – 30 – 1:30 PM EST – 3:0 PM EST Package of four 90 minutes Mentor Coaching Sessions: These sessions are designed to enhance coaching skills of the participants, from both the art and science of coaching perspectives. Participants will practice coaching underContinue reading “Upcoming Events”

One wonders how are these related if at all. Often when we modify our wiring and energetic flows from their original intended harmonious state to different one by our choice making. That results an obstruction occurs inside our human system. Eventually these not addressed obstructions may turn into a form of dis-ease. Deep Relaxation isContinue reading “Cognitive Distortions and Deep Relaxation”

Cognitive restructuring, or cognitive re-framing, is a process that helps the client discover, challenge, and modify or replace supportive  thought patterns or cognitive distortions. Cognitive Behavioral Coaching is a frequently used tool in a coach’s toolbox uncover problems that are caused by faulty ways of thinking about ourselves and the world around us. Although itContinue reading “Cognition and Re-Cognition in Coaching”

When we think of love, we often look for demonstrations of it to ensure the evidence based on the culture we relate ourselves with, such as demonstrations of love via gifts, etc from the loved ones. I observe this behavior in many cultures “demonstration of love” or “proof of love” as a collective wound thatContinue reading “Distortions about Love”

There is a distinction between working with the client to identify overarching dreams, goals and desires for the client, and identifying focus (agenda) for each session. There are few things key to this process and you may consider what I am sharing with you for your client sessions as well as for imagining your coachingContinue reading “Creating Long-term Vision”

  As a #mentorcoach I am often asked by my students how to objectively assess their sessions for their growth and development. Obviously, working with a mentor coach is supportive for the process to go over the session recording, review what client offered during the session and how the coach responded. If having such mentorContinue reading “Post Session Reflections and Awareness”

I am at a resort, observing the animals around eating the leftover foods from the guests. That includes fried, fatty, unhealthy meats, French fries, etc. While I observe pigeons eating leftover French fries and bees drinking from soda fountains, it makes me think the concept of “all is one”. As humans, our unconscious and inconsiderateContinue reading “Consciousness and choice making”

As any new business, in the beginning I see most coaches struggle to understand or decide what their #niche is. Identification of this is not an instant process rather, a progression of reflection and data collection process as one understand their gifts by #self-reflection and hearing what others telling you while they praise about yourContinue reading “How to understand and clarify your #niche”